I’m an IT guy with an interesting past and works entirely too hard. I’m looking for someone who believes in equality of partners in a relationship and would like to take my mind off work. For now I’m looking for a pen pal that I can get to know better so that we can decide whether we’re right for one another. My lady should be both educated and have common sense, understanding, and desirous of a one woman man! If interested please write!!

I understand that everyone comes with a life they’ve lived before me, so whether you have kids or not I’m okay with it…what matters is that lessons have been learned from past experiences (both good and bad). My ideal partner sees us as equals in the relationship and assists with decision making and believes that respect and trust are the pillars of any relationship.